However, a XoJane writer Laura Rubino, who investigated the incidence of abuse as reported in CDD forums was surprised to find that she did not encounter "as many of those as I was expecting to. I also knew that, when we were done with this spanking, it would be over. What could I do, other than obey him? Three months ago, Ruth earned a spanking. This blog is intended as an informal place to post, archive, and comment on spanking stories and perhaps to share story ideas. Clint and Chelsea lecture on the risks of using a wooden spoon; It breaks easily.